Best Tips On Making a Long Distance Relationship Work

Best Tips On Making a Long Distance Relationship Work – Sometimes absence makes you realize you’re both not meant for each other. Is that so?

Making a long distance relationship work isn’t easy – you can’t talk to your partner as often as you’d like to due to the time difference and as for physical intimacy? Forget about it. But this doesn’t mean a long distance relationship is doomed to fail. However, if you’re seeing any of these red flags below, it might be time to reconsider your future together.

  • Scenario 1. Relocation isn’t part of the plan.

If you’re looking to have a future together with your partner (that is, you’re planning to get married and have kids eventually), then at the end of the day, you two have to be together physically. Are you prepared to say goodbye to your career and friends, and start over in a foreign city, or even country? That has been said, if your partner is from another country, and they didn’t have any plan to make both of you together in any time in the future, you need to think twice.

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  • Scenario 2. Communication is a one-sided affair.

It can be difficult to keep up with you partner’s life considering the differences in time zones, distances and lifestyle. But surely, you can both make time to chat and keep each other updated on what’s happening around your area, or story telling them what happened to your day. That’s a right thing to do, right? If you both find it a chore, then you might have a problem. But you should also keep this in mind: There are no hard and fast rules when it comes to communicating in a relationship, just as there’s no set number of hours you need to spend talking to each other. What’s more important is that the both of you are on the same page about what you expect from the relationship. Try to invite each other to a vacation every once in a while!

  • Scenario 3. You Guys Start to Doubt Each Other.

There’s the constant fear that your partner might find someone else when you’re both apart but this is why trust is very important. It might be uncomfortable to talk about the jealousy issues affecting your relationship at first, but it pays to lay them out on the table and see how you can assuage each other;s fears and insecurities. But if the situation doesn’t improve, and you still want to keep the relationship, you need to find time, and fly to him/her immediately. Or you can’t do that, you need to keep communicating with them, do a voice call, or even video call, and talk to each other about the situation, you need to rebuild ‘trust’ between you two. And so, you have done everything, and the situation still doesn’t improve, or even worse, then it might be time to say good bye, right?

  • Scenario 4. Your Relationship Has Run Its Course.

Fact is people change and even the happiest of couple sometimes drift apart after a while. When this happens, it might be time for the both of you to move on with your lives. At the end of the day, you can hope and try to make a LDR work, but if a problem keeps pops up, cutting it short might save you a whole lot of pain in the long run. People change, who knows him/her fall in love in another person while you were gone? Say what, you need to keep in touch with him/her to save your relationship. Start by downloading a simple chat apps to your phone, LINE, WeChat, Whatsapp, Messenger or whatever it is, and make sure you phone him/her everyday as a routine. Don’t wait for them to call you first, you need to step forward first if you want to save your Long Distance Relationship!

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